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Thursday, December 18, 2008

how to be your guy's good Girl?

Don't you think being a good girlfriend is an excellent art?. Anybody can get a boyfriend and keeping one is the difficult section. It assists to know what men want and how to give it to them without compromising your honesty.


A good girlfriend is not haughty, she’s not jealous, and she knows that it’s the little things that make the biggest differences.

Suggestions on how to be a good girlfriend

1: Be real honest: Whereas self honest to you are helper, it is equally vital that you be honest to yourself and yes, in a grown-up relationship, honesty is the most excellent policy, as long as you are important other too is honest to himself and we all know it is pretty difficult to expect from anyone.

2: Have a optimistic attitude: If all you say about him is a censure or an attack, he will not look onward to seeing you remember people don't want you to be honest with their inadequacy's. It is a improved plan in mature relationships. Be unprompted, but be careful in your impulsiveness.Be happy.

3: Communicate regularly: Do not talk his ear off, he doesn't need your opinion, if he did he would read a book or something he respects. However, make positive that if you have any difficulty that will have an effect on your mood, he is made aware of the reasons for your problems. so that you do not come into view to just be a indecisive and bad-tempered creature. But if you have big problems, keep it to yourself, because then it may look like you are talking his ear off.

4: Build your desires, needs, and opinions: Still when they might disagreement with his. If they do, build certain that you should desist from talking too a great deal concerning them. You decision and needs definitely help you.

5: Be reliable: Such as being truthful first, then being diplomatic next. Such as having the desire to converse issues first, then shutting the torture up. If you want to be reliable, make sure it's well-matched with his/her desires. If you are reliably annoying, they won't have none of that.

6: Be patient: Please don't mechanically think he did not hear you when you said something. May be he was worried with not listening to you. Don't jump to end and don't be bitchy about being ignored all the time. Remember, they may be trying to be reliable with their egocentricism.

7: Take an interest in his interests: Take an interest in his disinterests too. He may be disinterested in what you like, so at smallest amount try to understand why he is not interested respect it like the relationship saving, selfless person you are.


Trying my best to be one,

Tony

how to deal with Long Distance Relationship uncertanties?

Here is a message on how to make a long distance relationship work. Let us learn from Dr. Paul.



your friend,

Tony

How about a Long Distance relationship?

Having a long-distance relationship is hard. Uncertainties seem to surround the rel. Nevertheless, keeping the rel moving is a great achievement and a fulfillment!


Making long-distance relationships can be a nice thing because you will be forced to do and learn things on your own. Keeping in touch with your partner is an easy thus long distance relationships be more successful nowadays. Maintaining a long distance relationship you have spend some time, understand your partner, trust your partner and take care of your partner.

For many people long-distance relationships help for partners to experience growth, maturity and bonding together. Long distance relationship is difficult and needs a strong commitment between you and your partner.So , I introduce to you the guide in dealing in a long-distance love affair.


Tips For Making Relationships Work Long Distance

  • Communication: Communication is vital in any field. Daily communication is important with your partner. For daily communication you have to ask him/her several question related with there works and some personal question.
  • Honest and Trust: Give respect to your partner when he/she sharing any personal matter which you. Try to involved with your partner and find your a proper solution because it will build your relation ship more honest and your partner trust with you.
  • Spend Time: Try to spend some time with your partner. Garden is best place to spend some time. You can understand him/her in silent place and you can come close to your partner.
  • Regular Meetings: If you meet regularly with your partner then it is easy to understand him or her. You can discuss some many things such as your personal matter and this is a best idea to keep in touch with your partner. Meeting regularly is important to the success of your long distance relationship.
  • Bonding and Nurturing: If you think you are too close with your long distance partner then share each and every think with your partner such as annoying part of your day, you are really worry about our relationship discuss it now.
  • Maximum Use of Technology: If you do not have time to spend with you partner then the best idea is phone calls. This is a nice idea to keep in touch with your partner.
  • Use Email, Cards and Gifts: Maximum use of email, if you do not have some time to spend with your friend then you can send him/her an email, beautiful card or gifts.

Keeping in Touch,

Tony

Wednesday, December 17, 2008

Here are tips for Men

I will be sharing to you (especially to guys), the ways for you to build a good or even better relationship.

If the men is followed in love than he need a proper way to build a strong relationship. Men always try to find a good idea for a good relationship. You know each others likes and dislikes. A successful and strong relationship is one that is built on trust and dependability.

Tips for men to build a good relationship.

  • Try to listen to her and definitely she will give you signs about her likes and dislikes. After some time you can show her that you remember what she has said and it makes a dissimilarity to you.
  • Please try to behave real. Do not overstate to make yourself sound better. Do not tell her dishonesty just because you think it will help.
  • Do not propose advice unless asked. It could come off sounding like you are telling her what to do. Now listen and be supportive.
  • Do not act hopeless. Just let things flow naturally. Desperation is an unappealing excellence. Playing a little hard to get can really be attractive.
  • Avoid discussion about yourself too much. Try to talk something different, on the other hand silence does not work also. Look about and find something to talk about. Preferably about her.
  • To treat your lady with good respect, you need to permit her the freedom to have time to spend on herself. Jealousy and possessiveness are harmful in any relationship and communicate that you are unsure of yourself, clingy and potentially aggressive if you are not the center of attention.
  • Remembering birthdays, anniversaries and special event shows that she's important sufficient to you that you know how to plan in front.
  • Try to give her respect. Respect is vital for a relationship.
Trying to be a relationship adviser,

Antonia

An advice to heed

Let me share to you a message from Dr. Paul on how to keep our relationships enjoyable and never boring.



Let us keep every moment with our loved ones memorable.

Tony

Keeping a relationship alive!

I think anyone who is in a healthy relationship wants to keep it going and constructive to each party especially if LOVE is the reason for its existence. A lot has experienced heart ache and broken promises. The outright reaction is crying out the pain, others even drink to mitigate the 'suffering', worse, others even commit suicide.

In order for us to keep and cherish a relationship, here are steps I got from my reading expedition and I want to share with you in order for our relationships to stay alive:

Steps1: Give up dead routines: After the initial enthusiasm of being together is over, many fall into a routine and begin taking one another for granted.

  • They assume they know what their partner is feeling, that it doesn't subject if they come late for a date, don’t look as nice as they used to or make a decision to spend more and more time out with friends. It is crucial to understand that there are many small ways in which we damage relationships. Unless two people feel cared for and valued by one another, it is easy for the feelings of love to fade away.
  • Break into routines. Break out of channels. Take time to plan exciting, romantic, delicious times to spend together. Even if it’s now for a little while. Offer time to the relationship that nothing can interrupt. This is a sacred time for the two of you and during it do what makes both of you feel most satisfied.

Steps2: Take charge of how you perceive your partner each day:

  • The good feelings between partners are frequently sharp by the way in which they view one another. Do you view him as a hero? somebody you can look up to and respect or are you mostly dwelling upon his/her faults. After a relationship has gone on for a while it is easy to start to view one another as ordinary. This is a sure-fire method for putting out any fire that may exist. Remember, when you first fell in love, you only saw the best about that person and focused on how wonderful they were. If you want to keep the love alive, keep that going deliberately.

Step3: Understanding Hidden Expectations:

  • Take a instant to become aware of what you are expecting of your partner. Is it possible for him to fulfill these expectations. Does he need the same thing from the relationship? More frequently than not, it is our unfulfilled expectations, which make us upset. In order to feel close and satisfied in a relationship, a vital step is making sure your expectations can be met. See how your expectations bring into line with the person you are with.
  • Also take time to see if anyone can fulfill them? Are these expectations realistic or simply childhood dreams you are still carrying with you?

Step4: Letting Him Fulfill Your Dreams:

  • Become aware off which expectations of yours your partner does meet. Now see if you are ready to be satisfied with that. Can you find a way to feel thankful for what you are receiving? Sometimes now deciding that what your partner offers is good sufficient, can permit the love to catch fire once again. Then, let him know that he’s making you happy. Most people have a deep require to know and to hear that they are meaningful to you.

Step5: Re-Choose Your Partner:

  • When these steps are taken, you will not only be more connected, but you will be with your partner because there is no other location you need to be. The relationship will not be one of expediency, but one of choice. The actual act of re-choosing our partners, of knowing they are the one’s we want to be with, is the conclusion of the reconnecting and romance we have found.
If we love our respective partners in life, then we must treasure every moment that we are together. We never want to lose them. Let us take our part before it's too late.


keeping Mykz with me,
Tony